عسووولة
05-08-2010, 04:06 PM
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
السلام عليكم
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لا تناقش ،،
إذا كنت غير ملم بموضوع النقاش .. غيرمدرك لسبب النقاش .. ولا لبعد النقاش ..
إذا شعرت أن نقاشك لا (http://www.eshrag.net/vb/redirector.php?url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.umabdullah.com %2Fvb%2F%25D9%2585%25D8%25AA%25D9%2589-%25D8%25A3%25D9%2586%25D8%25A7%25D9%2582%25D8%25B4-%25D8%259F-%25D9%2588%25D9%2585%25D8%25AA%25D9%2589-%25D9%2584%25D8%25A7-%25D8%25A3%25D9%2586%25D8%25A7%25D9%2582%25D8%25B4-%25D8%259F-%25D9%2585%25D9%2588%25D8%25A7%25D8%25B6%25D9%258A %25D8%25B9-%25D9%2585%25D9%2586%25D9%2588%25D8%25B9%25D8%25A9-%25D8%25B9%25D8%25A7%25D9%2585%25D8%25A9-%25D9%2585%25D9%2581%25D9%258A%25D8%25AF%25D8%25A9-%25D8%25AD%25D9%2588%25D8%25A7%25D8%25B1-%25D9%2586%25D9%2582%25D8%25A7%25D8%25B4-74301%2F)يقدم الحل المناسب ..
لا تناقش،،
إذا شعرت برغبة من يحاورك في إستفزازك .. والعبث بأعصابك ..
لا تناقش،،
إذا كان موضوع النقاش ليس سوياً ..
لا تناقش،،
إذا شعرت بعدم قناعتك بموضوع النقاش ..
وأحسست بعدم قدرتك في إظهار وجهة نظرك بطريقة مقنعة ..
فلا تناقش،،
إذا أحسست أن النقاش قد يسلك مساراً متوسع ... ولا تستطيع احتواءه ..
فلا تناقش،،
إذا شعرت بأنك قد تخسر من يناقشك ... وتتخذه خصماً بعد مودة ..
فلا تناقش،،
لا تناقش،،لأن الدنيا والعمر أقل زمناً من أن تهدرها في نقاشٍ لا (http://www.eshrag.net/vb/redirector.php?url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.umabdullah.com %2Fvb%2F%25D9%2585%25D8%25AA%25D9%2589-%25D8%25A3%25D9%2586%25D8%25A7%25D9%2582%25D8%25B4-%25D8%259F-%25D9%2588%25D9%2585%25D8%25AA%25D9%2589-%25D9%2584%25D8%25A7-%25D8%25A3%25D9%2586%25D8%25A7%25D9%2582%25D8%25B4-%25D8%259F-%25D9%2585%25D9%2588%25D8%25A7%25D8%25B6%25D9%258A %25D8%25B9-%25D9%2585%25D9%2586%25D9%2588%25D8%25B9%25D8%25A9-%25D8%25B9%25D8%25A7%25D9%2585%25D8%25A9-%25D9%2585%25D9%2581%25D9%258A%25D8%25AF%25D8%25A9-%25D8%25AD%25D9%2588%25D8%25A7%25D8%25B1-%25D9%2586%25D9%2582%25D8%25A7%25D8%25B4-74301%2F)يجدي،،
ولـكـن
إذا تولدت لديك روح الإصرار على التعلم ..
وقدرة إستيعاب التغيرات في أي حقائق ..
إذا شعرت أنك مطمئن إلى من تحاور ..
وعرفت أن النقاش لن يكلفك كثيراً من الزمن .. للوصول إلى مبتغاك من النقاش ..
إذا كنت تتقن فن الإنصات .. والملاحظة الحسية .. والفكرية ..
إذا عقدت العزم على أن ترضى بتغيير مالم يكن صحيحاً ..
و أن لاتخجل بالإعتراف .. بخبرة محدثك .. أو بقلة علمك ..
و إن أعجبك اسلوب من تحاور ..
حينئذٍ ... لاتتردد
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السلام عليكم
متى أناقش (http://www.eshrag.net/vb/redirector.php?url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.umabdullah.com %2Fvb%2F%25D9%2585%25D8%25AA%25D9%2589-%25D8%25A3%25D9%2586%25D8%25A7%25D9%2582%25D8%25B4-%25D8%259F-%25D9%2588%25D9%2585%25D8%25AA%25D9%2589-%25D9%2584%25D8%25A7-%25D8%25A3%25D9%2586%25D8%25A7%25D9%2582%25D8%25B4-%25D8%259F-%25D9%2585%25D9%2588%25D8%25A7%25D8%25B6%25D9%258A %25D8%25B9-%25D9%2585%25D9%2586%25D9%2588%25D8%25B9%25D8%25A9-%25D8%25B9%25D8%25A7%25D9%2585%25D8%25A9-%25D9%2585%25D9%2581%25D9%258A%25D8%25AF%25D8%25A9-%25D8%25AD%25D9%2588%25D8%25A7%25D8%25B1-%25D9%2586%25D9%2582%25D8%25A7%25D8%25B4-74301%2F)؟ومتى لا (http://www.eshrag.net/vb/redirector.php?url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.umabdullah.com %2Fvb%2F%25D9%2585%25D8%25AA%25D9%2589-%25D8%25A3%25D9%2586%25D8%25A7%25D9%2582%25D8%25B4-%25D8%259F-%25D9%2588%25D9%2585%25D8%25AA%25D9%2589-%25D9%2584%25D8%25A7-%25D8%25A3%25D9%2586%25D8%25A7%25D9%2582%25D8%25B4-%25D8%259F-%25D9%2585%25D9%2588%25D8%25A7%25D8%25B6%25D9%258A %25D8%25B9-%25D9%2585%25D9%2586%25D9%2588%25D8%25B9%25D8%25A9-%25D8%25B9%25D8%25A7%25D9%2585%25D8%25A9-%25D9%2585%25D9%2581%25D9%258A%25D8%25AF%25D8%25A9-%25D8%25AD%25D9%2588%25D8%25A7%25D8%25B1-%25D9%2586%25D9%2582%25D8%25A7%25D8%25B4-74301%2F)أناقش (http://www.eshrag.net/vb/redirector.php?url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.umabdullah.com %2Fvb%2F%25D9%2585%25D8%25AA%25D9%2589-%25D8%25A3%25D9%2586%25D8%25A7%25D9%2582%25D8%25B4-%25D8%259F-%25D9%2588%25D9%2585%25D8%25AA%25D9%2589-%25D9%2584%25D8%25A7-%25D8%25A3%25D9%2586%25D8%25A7%25D9%2582%25D8%25B4-%25D8%259F-%25D9%2585%25D9%2588%25D8%25A7%25D8%25B6%25D9%258A %25D8%25B9-%25D9%2585%25D9%2586%25D9%2588%25D8%25B9%25D8%25A9-%25D8%25B9%25D8%25A7%25D9%2585%25D8%25A9-%25D9%2585%25D9%2581%25D9%258A%25D8%25AF%25D8%25A9-%25D8%25AD%25D9%2588%25D8%25A7%25D8%25B1-%25D9%2586%25D9%2582%25D8%25A7%25D8%25B4-74301%2F)؟
لا تناقش كثيراً ،،، ولا تجادل ،،،
إذا كنت تتوقع أنك لا (http://www.eshrag.net/vb/redirector.php?url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.umabdullah.com %2Fvb%2F%25D9%2585%25D8%25AA%25D9%2589-%25D8%25A3%25D9%2586%25D8%25A7%25D9%2582%25D8%25B4-%25D8%259F-%25D9%2588%25D9%2585%25D8%25AA%25D9%2589-%25D9%2584%25D8%25A7-%25D8%25A3%25D9%2586%25D8%25A7%25D9%2582%25D8%25B4-%25D8%259F-%25D9%2585%25D9%2588%25D8%25A7%25D8%25B6%25D9%258A %25D8%25B9-%25D9%2585%25D9%2586%25D9%2588%25D8%25B9%25D8%25A9-%25D8%25B9%25D8%25A7%25D9%2585%25D8%25A9-%25D9%2585%25D9%2581%25D9%258A%25D8%25AF%25D8%25A9-%25D8%25AD%25D9%2588%25D8%25A7%25D8%25B1-%25D9%2586%25D9%2582%25D8%25A7%25D8%25B4-74301%2F)تستطيع إقناع الطرف الآخر ..
إذا كنت تشعر أنك في وسطٍ لا (http://www.eshrag.net/vb/redirector.php?url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.umabdullah.com %2Fvb%2F%25D9%2585%25D8%25AA%25D9%2589-%25D8%25A3%25D9%2586%25D8%25A7%25D9%2582%25D8%25B4-%25D8%259F-%25D9%2588%25D9%2585%25D8%25AA%25D9%2589-%25D9%2584%25D8%25A7-%25D8%25A3%25D9%2586%25D8%25A7%25D9%2582%25D8%25B4-%25D8%259F-%25D9%2585%25D9%2588%25D8%25A7%25D8%25B6%25D9%258A %25D8%25B9-%25D9%2585%25D9%2586%25D9%2588%25D8%25B9%25D8%25A9-%25D8%25B9%25D8%25A7%25D9%2585%25D8%25A9-%25D9%2585%25D9%2581%25D9%258A%25D8%25AF%25D8%25A9-%25D8%25AD%25D9%2588%25D8%25A7%25D8%25B1-%25D9%2586%25D9%2582%25D8%25A7%25D8%25B4-74301%2F)يستجيب لك .. لا يحتويك .. لا يتفهم أفكارك ..
لا تناقش ،،
إذا كنت غير ملم بموضوع النقاش .. غيرمدرك لسبب النقاش .. ولا لبعد النقاش ..
إذا شعرت أن نقاشك لا (http://www.eshrag.net/vb/redirector.php?url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.umabdullah.com %2Fvb%2F%25D9%2585%25D8%25AA%25D9%2589-%25D8%25A3%25D9%2586%25D8%25A7%25D9%2582%25D8%25B4-%25D8%259F-%25D9%2588%25D9%2585%25D8%25AA%25D9%2589-%25D9%2584%25D8%25A7-%25D8%25A3%25D9%2586%25D8%25A7%25D9%2582%25D8%25B4-%25D8%259F-%25D9%2585%25D9%2588%25D8%25A7%25D8%25B6%25D9%258A %25D8%25B9-%25D9%2585%25D9%2586%25D9%2588%25D8%25B9%25D8%25A9-%25D8%25B9%25D8%25A7%25D9%2585%25D8%25A9-%25D9%2585%25D9%2581%25D9%258A%25D8%25AF%25D8%25A9-%25D8%25AD%25D9%2588%25D8%25A7%25D8%25B1-%25D9%2586%25D9%2582%25D8%25A7%25D8%25B4-74301%2F)يقدم الحل المناسب ..
لا تناقش،،
إذا شعرت برغبة من يحاورك في إستفزازك .. والعبث بأعصابك ..
لا تناقش،،
إذا كان موضوع النقاش ليس سوياً ..
لا تناقش،،
إذا شعرت بعدم قناعتك بموضوع النقاش ..
وأحسست بعدم قدرتك في إظهار وجهة نظرك بطريقة مقنعة ..
فلا تناقش،،
إذا أحسست أن النقاش قد يسلك مساراً متوسع ... ولا تستطيع احتواءه ..
فلا تناقش،،
إذا شعرت بأنك قد تخسر من يناقشك ... وتتخذه خصماً بعد مودة ..
فلا تناقش،،
لا تناقش،،لأن الدنيا والعمر أقل زمناً من أن تهدرها في نقاشٍ لا (http://www.eshrag.net/vb/redirector.php?url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.umabdullah.com %2Fvb%2F%25D9%2585%25D8%25AA%25D9%2589-%25D8%25A3%25D9%2586%25D8%25A7%25D9%2582%25D8%25B4-%25D8%259F-%25D9%2588%25D9%2585%25D8%25AA%25D9%2589-%25D9%2584%25D8%25A7-%25D8%25A3%25D9%2586%25D8%25A7%25D9%2582%25D8%25B4-%25D8%259F-%25D9%2585%25D9%2588%25D8%25A7%25D8%25B6%25D9%258A %25D8%25B9-%25D9%2585%25D9%2586%25D9%2588%25D8%25B9%25D8%25A9-%25D8%25B9%25D8%25A7%25D9%2585%25D8%25A9-%25D9%2585%25D9%2581%25D9%258A%25D8%25AF%25D8%25A9-%25D8%25AD%25D9%2588%25D8%25A7%25D8%25B1-%25D9%2586%25D9%2582%25D8%25A7%25D8%25B4-74301%2F)يجدي،،
ولـكـن
إذا تولدت لديك روح الإصرار على التعلم ..
وقدرة إستيعاب التغيرات في أي حقائق ..
إذا شعرت أنك مطمئن إلى من تحاور ..
وعرفت أن النقاش لن يكلفك كثيراً من الزمن .. للوصول إلى مبتغاك من النقاش ..
إذا كنت تتقن فن الإنصات .. والملاحظة الحسية .. والفكرية ..
إذا عقدت العزم على أن ترضى بتغيير مالم يكن صحيحاً ..
و أن لاتخجل بالإعتراف .. بخبرة محدثك .. أو بقلة علمك ..
و إن أعجبك اسلوب من تحاور ..
حينئذٍ ... لاتتردد
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